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the following is the second part of an article on job-interview preparation specially written for jobnet. the first part discussed contacting the organization and this second part focuses on the interview process and steps to take after the interview. |
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feelings and body language – try to stay relaxed. no tragedy will befall you if you don’t get the job. amazing success stories have been told and have yet to be told by people who did not get hired for regular positions, went on with their lives and eventually achieved great things. use the restroom before you go into the interview and don’t drink a lot before the interview. you don’t need another source of stress. be aware of preconceived notions. both you and the interviewer have them and they can influence the way the interview is conducted. styles of dress, background, body language, etc. be aware of your outward characteristics and the impression they make and try to temper their impact. for example, if you grew up in a disadvantaged neighborhood, stress how you successfully coped with the environment and even helped others. you held an unimpressive job post in the army. connect this to a health problem (one that is irrelevant, of course, to your ability to carry out the job being offered). display confidence – in accordance with the circumstances. remember that you are on the interviewer’s turf and your future is in his hands. except for certain exceptions, in this situation he has superiority over you. even if you converse openly, which is the way it should be, the underlying messages should be clear to both of you, especially you. don’t act like you’re in charge. sit erectly, but not stiffly, and avoid clasping your hands around your neck as you settle back into the chair. you’re not at the pool. appear comfortable, but not overly comfortable. some interviewers will not show respect for your time. for example, they will answer phone calls and apologize to you. this is unprofessional, but try to restrain yourself. if it gets out of hand, in a pleasant manner without any anger suggest rescheduling the interview out of consideration for the pressures on the interviewer, not because you feel imposed upon. not every interviewer is trained in interpersonal relations and not everyone will accord you the respect you deserve. don’t be quick to feel insulted by an amateurish interviewer. keep the goal of your meeting in mind and try to advance your objectives. still, set limits. don’t let anyone step all over you. |
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conversational manner |
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if you are offered a drink ask for a glass of water. this does not place an imposition on your hosts, but you will be able to wet your mouth during the course of the conversation. do not light a cigarette or ask if you can smoke. at best it won’t hurt, but it definitely won’t help. don’t be too saintly by volunteering information on your weaknesses. let the interview uncover them – that’s his job. tell the truth. you don’t have to tell all, but you do have to tell the truth. first of all the alternatives are unethical. secondly, if you get hired your working relationship will be founded on a lie. thirdly, most lies are eventually exposed, certainly over an extended period of working relations. answer questions matter-of-factly, even those that may be embarrassing to you. in many cases they are justified and the feeling of embarrassment arises only because the interviewer did not have the sense to pose the question in a tactful manner, or the source of the embarrassment lies in you and your personal circumstances. for example, the question, “what kind of work does your husband/wife do?” is embarrassing if you are in the middle of divorce proceedings. yet the interviewer merely wanted to know, perhaps in a slightly roundabout way, how you manage with two small children if both of you work unconventional hours. the interviewer may query you about your last job, particularly if it was in the same field the present organization is involved in. do not rush to volunteer information. first of all, it is unethical to reveal internal details about your former employer and secondly, the interviewer may think you have a loose tongue that could one day damage him as well. in response to questions that sound overly invasive you can gently say you don’t think it would be fair on your part to pass on this information and explain why. this answer may frustrate the interviewer for a moment, but clearly in most cases he will respect your integrity. never malign other people, even if they deserve to be denigrated. touch on the problem, not the people. if you had a bad boss don’t say that, but you can describe a situation in which you did not see things eye-to-eye. let the interviewer judge who was right and who was wrong. be aware of the interviewer’s body language as he listens to you speak. do not wear him out. many interviewees feel at ease during the conversation and talk too much. an interviewer may feel uncomfortable interrupting. do not get caught up in yourself and in enumerating your attributes. it is important to pay attention to the interviewer’s reactions. you’re allowed to feel nervous. you’re only human. you can even say this to the interviewer. he will generally accept this with empathy and may even feel more fondness toward you. he will feel you are on unsteady ground compared to him and will permit himself to be accommodating and help you overcome your nervousness. you can jot down notes during the interview, but not in a way that will interfere with the flow of communication. it’s best to ask the interviewer if he does not object and explain why you are doing so (for example, points you may want to bring up later in the conversation). do not rush to answer questions immediately. if you were asked an involved question you can take a few seconds to think before you speak. tell the interviewer you would like to think about your answer for a few seconds so he does not get the impression you swallowed your tongue. try to find out, based on the interviewer’s remarks and questions, what his goal is, where he is leading to and what he is trying to find out. in this kind of conversation not everything is out on the table. the interviewer will want to expose things you may not feel comfortable discussing openly. try to figure out what is important for him to know and stress this in your remarks. for instance, if he asks, “how important to you is openness at a place of work?” the issue is probably important to him, because another worker may have disappointed him in this matter. |
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common interview questions |
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from the outset of the interview you may be asked to tell about yourself. this requires that you speak at length rather than giving just a brief reply. it allows the interviewer to look you over and decide in which direction to steer the conversation. "why did you stop working at your last job?" "what did you not like at your former place of work?" "why did you choose to apply for this job?" chances are good you will be asked to present your attributes. this will make it easier for the interviewer to identify them and will allow him to evaluate character traits such as humility or arrogance, self-confidence, pride and self-awareness. if you are asked about your faults you should present a fault that is also an attribute. instead of liar - diplomatic. instead of stubborn - a person who sticks to his opinions. instead of unthinking - spontaneous. if you add the word "too" to every trait it will make it sound negative enough, yet not ruinous, and you will be perceived as a candid person who is aware of his weaknesses. (perfectionist, invest too much in your work - are these negative traits? perhaps to your wife, but here they might be seen in a positive light. what's wrong with a pedantic bookkeeper?). in presenting your attributes you can present faults that are not relevant to the job, i.e. an underdeveloped sense of humor. many interviewers see in the description of your faults your aptitude for self-criticism as well as help from you in determining your shortcomings, which is part of evaluating your suitability for the job. at this point we must stress the following: under no circumstances do we advocate misrepresenting yourself or creating a false impression. first and foremost this is unethical and of course will not help because eventually the truth will come to light - certainly in long-term relationships such as working relationships. all we are suggesting in the above recommendations is to create a situation in which you try to prevent the inexperienced interviewer from generating a skewed impression, not that you try to deceive an experienced interviewer (which generally will not succeed) or a less experienced interviewer (even if you do succeed, it is just in the short term)! another question might be, "what is your former employer's opinion of you?" "why are you right for this job?" |
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asking the interviewer questions |
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toward the end of the interview generally the interviewer will ask if you have any questions. you do, indeed, since you’ve come prepared. however, you may have already received answers to them during the course of the conversation or during your preliminary inquiries (e.g. you clarified the salary range of the job with the person who called you in for the interview). if this is the case, don’t make a special effort to come up with more questions. tell the interviewer you had questions but they have been answered. this approach will cast you as an organized, goal-oriented individual. if you do have questions pose them in a pointed, matter-of-fact manner. try not to focus on pay and working conditions in the initial stage, but on the nature of the job and the opportunities for development it offers. wait until the end to address salary and terms if the interviewer did not bother to discuss them at an earlier stage. some say questions on the potential for advancement and development, if not posed properly, can create the impression rather than focusing on the job for which you submitted your candidacy you already have your sights set on your next job. your interest is legitimate, but less suited to the company’s needs. a place of work is a human, social environment that has considerable influence on the quality of life of managers and workers alike. questions directed at the interviewer about the way the place of work is run, the prevalent atmosphere, company social activities, etc. will indicate you are not just the next professional coming to fill the post, but a person to whom the social environment is important. you may not remember all the questions you wanted to ask, but they appear on the list you prepared. there is nothing preventing you from politely asking to take out the list and glancing over it. this will convey the impression you took the interview seriously and came prepared.
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after the interview |
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reassess the organization and no matter what – continue your efforts! assess the quality of the organization. would you want to spend a significant portion of your day at this organization? keep in mind that a place of work has a decisive impact on your quality of life. the way you were treated in every stage of the hiring process reflects the organization’s level of professionalism and the atmosphere that prevails there. if you were treated condescendingly and coldly during the recruitment process chances are this kind of treatment will prevail after you are hired as well. pay attention to the warning signs that pop up along the way. do not be blinded by your eagerness to find work. analyze the interview and do not be led astray by the way it went. for example, an inexperienced interviewer might show you he was enthusiastic over your candidacy. take this in proportion and do not start celebrating prematurely. remember in many cases he is not the only person making the decision. keep in mind that he may be insufficiently trained and his assessment of whether or not you are suitable for the job is not accurate. you should also ascertain whether the job is suitable for you to avoid disappointment if you are hired. most of all, check whether the interviewer’s enthusiasm over you did not encourage him to paint the job in pretty colors to entice you. inexperienced interviewers tend to do this unknowingly when they want to recruit someone who appears to be an attractive candidate in their eyes. don’t stop looking for work during the two weeks they told you to wait before receiving a final answer. you may find your good feelings about the job misled you. even if they were not mistaken the circumstances at the organization may have changed and now they are considering the possibility of eliminating the job. meanwhile you sit back complacent and smug, sure the job is yours, and lose two weeks of valuable job-hunting time. prepare yourself emotionally to cope with rejection and keep in mind every failure is a possibility for something new and better. this maxim is not merely meant to encourage you, but has proven true on many occasions. keep in mind in many cases you were rejected for a certain position not because you were of insufficiently high caliber but for a variety of reasons that have nothing to do with you. don’t take a vacation to sink into self-pity. continue trying to apply to other positions from the same day you receive a rejection notice. |